I’m not a Grinch…

Feelings about the Christmas season….

and please don’t judge me. I’m not a Grinch…

It’s a season of magic, of mystery, and of waiting. I love to see the excitement and spark in little ones eyes. I also love, love the Reason for the Season. After saying all that, I’ve had several ah-ha moments to jog my awareness that as I get older, it’s ok to reevaluate how my Christmas is celebrated. I may be wrong, but I’m betting all of us are running out of energy, slowing down, and re-prioritizing.

I’m embracing simpler Christmases , not over the top, which has been my younger self.

Number one-my Christmas card list has been in the 100-200 person number. I’ve loved my card ritual, updating the addresses & creating a personal letter with pictures to fit into the cards. Sometimes my letter is enough to slip into a festive envelope.

As I reevaluate my priorities I pray everyone will understand that getting that many cards in the mail has become a chore. I’m sure no one wants any part of Christmas to be a chore. Wether we choose to scale back that list or to completely eliminate it is a personal choice. It’s also difficult to let go of such an old tradition.

Number two-decorations are also taking a downward priority. I’m ok putting timed white lights in each window and a wreath on my door, a wreath that I’ve had for a few years. Recycling is good-right?

I’m bringing fresh greenery with red berries on table tops-my new Christmas tree.

Number three-cooking has really taken a hit.

I’m now happy to bring a few dishes to my immediate family get together. I can spend more time and energy on three dishes rather than fixing a whole meal for everyone. I’m also happy to bring a fancy appetizer to my girlfriend get together.

Prioritizing a few dishes, for a few occasions make me so happy and then I have time for a nice glass of wine.

Number four-Merry Christmas to all and to all RELAX…